Friday, March 27, 2009

date recap

So yesterday, I finally went out with ILG. After having a minor freakout in my mother's house over not having brought anything that is pub-appropriate to wear (thank you to Megs and Kate for emailing me through my fashion freakout), I settled on dark jeans, Tory flats, and a white Lilly top with a black cami underneath. Because really folks, nothing says "casual" quite like an outfit that costs more than some people's rent in the Midwest does. (Of course, this is true of most of my outfits, so I'm not one to talk.) The place we were originally supposed to go to had cancelled pub trivia because of March Madness, so we ended up going to another bar in Murray Hill. We were doing so well there in the beginning, and then by the end, we got our rear ends handed to us on a platter. We got to talk a lot and I had a great time. He has an amazing sense of humor and I really like him, but I got the feeling that it isn't mutual. (It was nothing that he said or did, he was so nice and friendly the entire night, it's just my woman's intuition.) I would really want to go out with him again, but if he doesn't call again, I won't be shocked. Considering some of the other dates I've had, I'm just glad that this one didn't work out because we don't mesh, and not because his only hobby is watching porn or he can't read or whatnot.

Actually, what didn't help was my 50,000 or so sorority sisters texting me every 5 minutes to say "how's it going?" He thought it was funny. I was so embarassed. At some poing in the night, I just gave up and turned my phone off.

8 comments:

  1. Its better than 50,000 of us showing up and hiding in the bushes outside! LOL. xoxoxx

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  2. omg how embarassing.. but at least you spotted that he wasnt the right one from the get-go. Its the best that way. But your outfit sounds adorable and just keep dating!! xoxo

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  3. You never know what will happen! Sometimes guys give off the opposite vibe than what they are feeling!

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  4. I think it's great that you're dating and open to whatever happens. If he does or doesn't call for another date, it sounds like you have a great attitude about everything.

    Your outfit sounds too cute and perfect for a date night!

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  5. Sounds like you have the right attitude about it. Go with the flow and see what happens. If it works out, great! If not, there's someone out there who's more perfect for you. Glad it was a fun date at least!

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  6. thank goodness your date wasn't a freak like some of the others!

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  7. Good for you, it's wonderful you had a nice time! (Despite your wacky sorority sisters & the texting!)

    Have a stellar weekend!
    tp

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  8. turning the phone off is clutch! I'm proud of you, and happy you had a great time!

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